The Power of Surrender - How Letting Go Of Control Will Help Grow Your Business

We have made busy our new drug.

Why? Because busy means we can avoid fears and emotion and we stay in control or at least we think we do. Because giving up control, surrendering, or accepting that we are only responsible for the effort and not the outcome is f’ing scary!

As business owners we spend a lot of time thinking about the results we are going to get or the outcomes we want. How do we think we control that? With the effort we put in right?

Wrong…

So if that’s wrong, then what do we have control over, where do we want to be focusing our effort?

  1. Having the tools you require for your survival and to run your business
  2. The actions you take towards the desired outcomes and results

The actual outcomes and results….do not hang out here

Sure you can predict what the results will be, you can set goals, you can do your absolute best at all the tools and actions, but you cannot fully control the outcome.

Just row the damn boat

Let me give you an example. Your...

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How To Evict The Mean Girl In Your Head

Let’s  talk about evicting the mean girl in your head. No you’re not crazy, we all have that voice in our head that pops in uninvited and tells us things that usually sounds like negative self talk. Going into 2020 we want a positive mindset. We don't want or need to be talking crap about ourselves to ourselves. We are our own worst critics and sometimes we don't even realize that we're doing it, it's an automatic thought that just pops up in your head and you don't even mean to think it, but you do.

Acknowledge the thought - realize that they're talking. 

You have to realize that the thought is present and you have to know that those thoughts are negative thoughts. You know the ones, “I’m not good enough”, “I can't do this”, “I am stupid.” 

Be very careful of your I AM statements. Whatever you say after I am, you are telling yourself you are and your brain believes what you tell it period. So when you say I am,...

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